Skin irritation help!!

Marry • from Germany, 💑

Every time I shave, wax or epilate I get so many ingrown hairs and red bumps everywhere😖

Epilating gives the best results for me but it still looks like this and I epilated 7 days ago.

I don't care if I'm with my partner but whenever I'm naked in front of other people ( and I like to be naked in general) I don't see anything like that on other people.

Is it like this for everybody? And do you have any tips to make it better?