Why is it that someone who doesn't even wana be in a relationship, get engaged and get pregnant but someone like me who actually wants those things, can't have it? Granted, I'm in no rush to get engaged bc we are happy the way things are but we've been "trying" to get pregnant for almost a year and this other girl I'm referring to maybe was off birth control for two months...she's not even happy with her new fiance...like why?!!  Even my favorite shows on tv, have the characters getting pregnant and engaged...ugh