Am I a bad mom?

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I'm currently 13 wks and today I found out I'm having a little boy... I was in tears and it's wasn't happy tears I was disappointed it wasn't a girl since I have 2 boys already. I feel like a horrible mom just for thinking this way!

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Awwww , dear you are not a bad mom. The gender wasn't what you were hoping for, and so you are a little disappointed. It allowed.

Are you still going to love this child?- yes
Are you still excited?- yes
Are you still going to give your child an amazing life?- yes

So yes, you're a great mom

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I fear this will be me too if I find out I'm having another boy. It doesnt make you horrible. Gender dissapointment is a thing.

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Totally normal! Don't feel bad. I find out this coming week and I know I'll be upset if it's another boy. But I'll come around and once baby is here it'll be game over lol

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Its natural to feel disappointed at first... Especially if you already have two boys and really wanted a girl. That's totally okay. Of course it doesn't make you a bad mom. Now if you Dont get over the disappointment and Dont love him when he's born cause he's not a girl that would make you a bad mom hahaha but I'm sure you'll be fine.

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You're not a bad mom. It's just your hormones overreacting at this time. 
It's life, I'm sure you will love your little one as much as you love your other kids. 
We have preferences and hopes, but the bigger plan works out wonderfully in the end... 
Look at it this way: you have 3 boys. Which means you're standing to get 3 daughter in law.
It will be fine. Smile through tears and take care of you and your family. 
(((Hugs)))

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See I'm the opposite I have 2 girls and really want a boy since this is my last. I will also be disappointed though so I understand how you feel. I have read it is important to talk to people about these feelings. Good luck

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Same here! I already have a little boy & im praying so bad this baby is a girl lol

Am I a bad mom?

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