If you were asked to be the maid of honor in your brothers wedding and get replaced 2 days before the wedding would you be upset?

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I know this is off topic but I just need to vent...a year ago my brother got engaged and my soon to be sister in law asked me to be her maid of honor and of course I said yes...she had 2 other bridesmaids but they were never around to help her out.  I had to do soo much work to help her out with the wedding.  Obviously...I'm not complaining but the wedding is this Saturday.  And the rehearsal dinner was yesterday.  Best man says a speech and I'm there sitting waiting for my turn, after he was done he sst down & her other bridesmaid stands up..turns out I got replaced and they didn't even tell me. Not even afterwards.  I obviously left mad after it was over. Then got a Text hours later from the bride to be. Saying "sorry I didn't tell you about the maid of honor thing" 
I'm more upset that my own brother didn't let me know. 
I don't even want to go to the wedding anymore. Idk if I should stay mad or just forgive and forget.

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Uh.....what???!! No. I'm sorry, there's no way she "forgot". That's ridiculous. 
Its not your brother's fault, it's hers. She should have been forthcoming and let you know when she decided to change maid of honors. That's both rude and very inconsiderate. I'm sorry that happened to you. 
Yes, you should go to the wedding. Its your brother's wedding, and you will regret not showing up. However, in the future, if she asks for your help or participation in something, just tell her no. She doesn't deserve to think that she can use you like that.

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Hell yeah I'd b upset and the one screaming , "Don't marry them " hahahahahaha ???

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You have a right to be mad and when the preacher asks does anyone object to this wedding I would stand up and say yes I do lol and wear you maid of honor dress to the wedding but don't walk down the aisle people will ask why your wearing that dress and embarrass her at her own wedding

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Yeah I'd be mad ! That's just rude and inconsiderate !!

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I'd be hurt, furious, confused, sad, unwanted, unloved.

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That's not cool at all. I would be upset too. I can't believe your brother didn't stand up for you.

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Id be mad too! That's very inconsiderate of her:(! I'm so sorry!!

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I'm pissed for you!! ?

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It's unforgivable really. I'd never talk to her again. But I don't react positively to humans that feel they're allowed to hurt me. Sorry to say but that Bitch needs to know her place.

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Wow how rude. Are they still expecting you to be in the wedding?? If so I would just wear regular nice clothes and sit with everyone else and be a guest. If they question you just send a text and be like oh sorry I didn't tell you about that just being a guest thing. But that's just me.... Im kinda passive agressive sometimes lol