So before my current boyfriend and I started talking. I was talking with a really nice guy so I thought. So guy X and I were talking for about 2 months I think and he was really charming saying that he really like me and he wants me to be his blah blah blah. Which I believed in the beginning. So slowly I started noticing things. One day I came to his house to chill and you know spend time with Guy X and we watched a movie and got inmate like always do (im a huge cuddler so I like to be at home) and the first time we had sex he pulled the condom off which I did not notice until I looked to the floor ( were both clean so I didnt reall freak out and Im on birth control) anyways I looked at when I noticed and asked him why and hr could not answer. Fast foward to the next thing we once again were chillin in his house watch movies and had sex and when he left the room I was cleaning myself up and I happened to look down in the trash mind you this is probably our 3rd time having sex and I saw 2 used condoms and one still had cum in it. So I waited until he came back in his bedroom and asked and he said why am I going through his trash (which I wasn't it was at the top and I could clearly see it no effort) so when he got a call I can over hear it was a woman's voice and she asked him what he was doing and he replied nothing. Mind you were suppose to be in a relationship. So he took his conversation outside while he was talking I got dressed and left. He texted me about 10 minutes later asking why did I leave I replied if could lie to me about the condoms in your trash then I don't know what to tell you! The story doesn't end there lml but I happened to notice after that situation he started to text me less and I kinda felt a type of way and I called and called and called. I happen to have him on snapchat and noticed one of his stories had a woman in it. So I questioned him asking "who she was" he replied it's a long story.... lml yesterday he finally called me after almost 2 weeks stating that he wants to be with me but he has a girlfriend and she's 6 months pregnant and they have been together for a year! 😐 I finally came to the realization that I was the side chick. Smh I told my current boyfriend the situation and he was baffled saying how could someone lie and say their single and have a whole family on the way... sorry that was my story time 💗