Just have to vent(warning might offend)

When I see people pretty much bashing the women who already have children that were not planned, is well a slap to our face. My daughter was not planned at all. I didn't chose to get pregnant, but I'm very grateful to know that I can have a baby. I got pregnant by a loser because why, I willingly had sex. Also I truly understand your struggle, I sympathasize for you all. But you don't think us women didn't go through a struggle getting pregnant by accident??? Most of us were on our paths to starting our careers or lives. I know my dream in life went out the door, but I'm grateful my daughter happened. I struggled very hard with depression while pregnant. It wasn't due to the fact of being pregnant, it was because my dream was gone. You all have your dreams of having babies, and most of you will get them, but will i be able to fufill my dream? No. For one my daughter does not need her mother sticking her neck out on the line for people to bash her because she unwillingly got pregnant.  Also because I love her way to much to not see her grow up. I know a lot you are not bashing us, but I have seen and heard so many woman do it. Even my best friend bashed me for it. I'm now struggling with ttc 2. Going on 5 months. So please don't sit there and say I don't understand how hard it is. I've had a lot of health issues arise since ttc. So I sympathasize for you. But most of us do not need to see most of you filled with piss and vinager bashing us. I wish I could help you all get pregnant I truly do. But please stop, we are all suppose to support each other in trying for babies. If other woman getting pregnant by accident or took less time getting pregnant truly bothers you, get off the internet. I'm sorry if it's rude, but I really am tired of seeing it. It seriously bothers me.