Okay sooo me and my BF are really opened about talking about sex, but I'm afraid to tell him when he gets a bit rough. When he's eating me out he tends to bite a bit and I try to pull away but he pulls me back in and it just sooo painful. He thinks I like it when I keep telling him I don't. Then when he fingers me it's the same thing except I'm sore for like 4 days after and actually have a bruise on my 😽. Do I just tell him like bro you need to chill or what?