What was your first time like?

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How did you know you were ready?
​Did it hurt?
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My first time was slightly painful but my husband (boyfriend at the time) was very gentle and went very slow! It ended up being a really enjoyable experience compared to my friends' first times!

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It only hurt for a minute before I started to relax and actually enjoy it. My bf knew it was my first time (I was 21, now 22) so he kept asking to make sure I was okay, that it was something I wanted to do and that I wasn't in pain. He was really sweet & patient and there was lots of communicating. (It's still that way when we have sex, I'm thankful we're so comfortable together)
​A funny thing that happened was his roommate barged in the front door of their apartment and I've never seen him move as fast as he did when he leapt out of bed and shut his bedroom door. we both had a pretty good laugh. 
​For some reason I always thought I'd regret my first time but the way I see it, if you can talk an laugh about things when you're having sex, it's a very good sign :)

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It was after 9 months of dating my boyfriend. We are both 18 and virgins. We talked long and hard about it, and had been doing lots of "foreplay" and "everything but sex" for about 3 months beforehand. Lots of fingering, eating out, etc.. I think because we did a lot of that, having sex for the first time did not hurt. I have used tampons and with fingering as well I believe my hymen was already broken. There was no blood for me luckily. My vagina was a little sore the next day but not horrible. The more you stretch it the better and less painful it is :)

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It was very painful for me,I was so tense.
​It took 3 days of trying for it to fianally happen!
​And there was blood everywhere.sorry if it's tmi

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Painful I wanted to kill my boyfriend we had to stop the first try it hurt so bad after the 2nd try we finally had sex i did bleed even the 3rd time I felt bad stopping him the first time but he totally understood what I was going through

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Mine just happened yesterday with a friend, and I didn't feel a thing in the missionary position and I think I'm still technically a virgin... But once we changed positions the second time it hurt a little but felt good at the same time

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At first it was painfull and I was really scared that it would hurt the entire time. But after a while the pain stopped and everything turned out a lot better than I expected :)

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It was yesterday it was painful and now I'm regretting it because we were just friends

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Horrible!

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I was 16 at the time. We had been together 2 months and I just felt like I was ready, I had never done anything sexual with anyone before so there was just something about him I guess. It hurt a lot, but it was because we were both virgins and we didn't have any foreplay before. Haha.

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