My Relationship Is Draining Me . HELP !!!

My BF And Have Been Dating For Almost A Year And Things Were Pretty Good At First But He Lost His Job Due To Some Legal Issues And Its Been Going On Almost 5 Months He Hasn't Had A Job He Hasn't Been Looking For One And I'm The Only One Working I Just Recently Lost My Job Because Of A Shutdown So Everyone Was Laid Off I Have Been Doing Applications And Interviews And It Just Bothers Me That He Isn't Even Trying. I'm Not Materialistic Or Money Hungry I Just Think That In Order For A Relationship To Work Both Sides Should Be Doing 50/50 Instead Of 75/25 I'm Just A Little Fed Up With The Relationship Honestly But I Love Him And I'm Not Sure What To Do Anymore Because Talking To Him Doesn't Work Because Everytime I Say Something He Makes It Seem Like I'm Blaming It On Him Alone When I'm Not I Just Need Some Advice On What I Should Do