What does it mean when a guys sex drive is lower than yours?

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So my bf doesn't have as high of sex drive as I do and it makes me get into these stupid arguments. He says I take it too personal when really he's just too tired sometimes. He does work outside all day. It's a hard job he has. Am I overthinking this? Cuz when we have sex it's awesome, so I just don't know.

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Nothing.  It means nothing.  My husband has a way lower sex drive than me and its never been a problem.  He sometimes has to remind me that he is into me but he doesn't want sex at the moment.  For the most part he will have sex even when he doesn't want to just to please me.  Admittedly it is much less fun.

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Most guys are tired when they get off work especially with a labor intensive job. I would give him some room or you could end up loosing him

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Doesn't mean anything option

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Wheres the "it doesn't mean anything" option. Not all guys have high sex drives. Not all women have low ones. That's just a myth that has been perpetuated for centuries. He might be tired. Or sometimes guys who are stressed may not want to have sex. Ask him.

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I know how you feel! My boyfriend does landscaping in the warmer months and snow removal in the winter. I have a very high sex drive, 3-4 times a day when we first met, now lucky if it's 2x a week. He says he's tired and when it snows he works awful hours, so I know he's tired. But at the same time I feel he doesn't want it, doesn't enjoy it or doesn't want me. I know I'm overreacting, when we do have sex it's amazing. Other thing that bothers me, I always have to initiate it! I would figure with him being younger, he would be more sex crazed than me. His past relationships have just been short term, not going anywhere. Maybe that's why? We're coming up on our 1 year and were engaged. He treats me like a queen.

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Some guys are like that, with him working, he will sometimes just want to relax and go sleep early, he still loves you and finds you attractive still he is probably just tired x