Move in With Boyfriend?

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So me & my bf Been together 8months i really love him❣❣ he wants me to move in with him .. Any cons to this? I mean he says he wont have a any problems with me jus going out with friends every once in a while so thats good buh ladies have anyy opinions???

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Honestly it's all up to you. Me and my husband basically moved in together after knowing each other for 1 or 2 weeks and it worked out perfectly. 
You have to realize that he's going to see you at your absolute worse. Hair all a mess, makeup messed up, throwing up when you're sick and yadda yadda. You also have to ask yourself if you're comfortable enough yet to spend just about every hour of every day together. It's important to have "me" time but honestly you don't get much of it. See how he is about cleaning up after himself and what little quirks he has at his own place. Does he put dishes in the sink or in the empty dishwasher? Are you okay putting his dishes in the dishwasher or are you going to start a fight about it every time? Can you solve problems without getting into heated arguments or just ignoring him? How will you split the bills? Do you like his friends enough to have them over every once in a while? 
A lot goes into living together. There's good and there's bad. But if you feel like y'all are ready to make that step then do it. It's great coming home to your best friend every night and finding recipes to cook for dinner. But there are times when he's going to get on your very last nerve (don't say it won't happen it does to everyone) and you need to be able to handle those times in a mature way. Not just storm out. Its all about compromising and being able to turn the other cheek.

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I moved in with my husband after being with him like 2 weeks and it worked out great. Lol. It just depends. Just know you'll be pooping around him now.

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I don't think it's the best idea to move in right now with him. Moving in can bring a whole new level of new problems. Aguments may bring you apart but it can also bring you closer to your relationship.. Just listen to your heart.. And when you do.. you will know what's the right decision!

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I wouldn't. That's too early in the relationship to be honest. I mean some people work out just fine moving that fast, but it's not common. Just start staying the night a few nights a week and keeping some of your belongings there and do that for a while stay more and more after time and see if it works out good then move in officially. That's what I did with my SO and it worked better that way.

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I don't think it's an good idea. I feel like it's way too soon. Maybe try staying a few nights over there then see how you like it, but I wouldn't just jump straight into moving in together.

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If y'all ever decide to get married the divorce rate will go up 45%.

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It's really up to you I was with a ex for a yr before moving in was with him for another yr and it didn't work out he made the home feel like it wasn't mine to..and when me and my last ex moved in we had been dating for a month or 2 and that lasted 1.5 yrs and my bff moved in with her husband when they had only dated for 2 months and 5 months later they married and 5 years later they are still going strong.. you do what you feel is right.. if it feels wrong don't do it :-).. good luck

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my now husband moved in with me when we were like 2 or 3 months together ... it worked out pretty good lol its something new to fall in love with him everyday

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It's difficult AF living with your SO until you've been together a long AF time. It adds a billion more arguments to the table. Not worth it until you've cleared all other arguments up.

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