is my fiance cheating??

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the other day I was going through my fiances phone and seen a number with a guys name on it next to it, it said(work)
...I skimmed through his texts and everything seemed normal. mentioned about hanging out Saturday with family...but at the very top the first messaged ever sent was from that guy and it read ... I miss you :,( ......
my question is is he cheating g on me?.... or is it normal of a guy friend from "work" to tell him he misses him? .. I called today private but couldn't seem to tell the voice whether it was guy or girl since I was nervous... I need help advice..I don't wanna mess anything up between us...help?! please....

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Ladies... Some women with the intention of cheating save guys #s under female names & vise versa!

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This is why snooping is a HUGE no-no. You've now found one little thing, that at this point could be something to be concerned about or, more than likely, be harmless play with his male co-worker. Now, you are faced with the question "should I bring it up?" "should I leave it alone?" If you leave it alone, it will eat at you and you will not have any rest from it, you will now constantly question everyone your husband talks to, everything he does. Or you could bring it up, at which point YOU are also admitting to going behind his back and going through his private things. If he IS hiding something, now he also has something to throw at your face, and say that YOU were doing things behind his back as well. And if he was just playing around with his co-worker; well now you just look like the untrustworthy girlfriend/wife, whom he will have to think twice about trusting every again. See, nothing good ever comes out of snooping sweetie.

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I would just straight up ask him who the person is. Or just try to be sneaky about it and have him have this "guy" over or hangout together. And I don't think it's wrong of you to go through his phone. I think it's just something you do if you're curious or possibly have suspicions. I would have no problem with it if my husband took my phone and was "snooping" through it. I have nothing to hide and that will just prove it when he finds nothing

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He could be talking to a girl that he just has labeled as a guy from work. Block your number and call it.

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Was your fiance off work the day that first text was sent? Maybe they are just good work buddies and he missed him. Just ask your fiance, and  didn't go calling and harassing other people; that's not cool.

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My husband works with a bunch of men and they text each other a range of things and joke around a lot. His "work husband" has texted him things like miss you or love you bobo before and vice versa. If you are uncomfortable with it, talk to him. But be ready to answer the question of why you were reading his texts. Sorry love! Hope everything gets figured out.

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Damn.. But why would a "co worker" text him with "I miss you" ? Specially if it's a guy? I would ask him and get it over with. Tell him to tell you straight up.. Then after he asks you why ur asking... The tell him because of that text! And to explain to you why would a make coworker tell him he misses him.

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Well my husband and his buddies are close. And I mean close lol. So they will send things like that occasionally. They also take pictures hugging each other and ect. But of course my man and his buddies have been overseas together. Been through a lot. I have been told about the conversations they have had through text, and I wish I never knew. Why are you snooping anyway?

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Ok. So my fiancé and his friends are very...guyish. They are in Alaska and he is down in Nevada with me. Even though they're the best of friends, haven't seen each other in a couple years, and are very close...they NEVER say "I miss you" because "they're dudes" and "that's weird". So in my opinion, that's a female. Especially if it had an emoticon. I would call and have an actual conversation with them to see what's up.

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Is that a smiley face winking after I miss u? If that's they case then that doesn't seem like a homeboy would send something like that. I would just put the number in your phone and block your number and call it and ask who it is and then when they answer say sorry wrong number. Then you know if it's a dude or a not