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Hubby not helping with the baby ... so frustrating ...

So , here is the deal . We have no family here or friends to help at all . So basically is just me and him .

Due to his work ( free lance whatever )he's not helping me taking care of our 6 weeks old daughter at all !!! He work from home , so sleeps until 11 in the morning and work late at night . When I say late I mean 2 or 3 in the morning . Then when the baby cries or whatever he say " NO!" "No" to her ... And try to Eeeeeee"" from the other room . WTF! I literally what to slap him in the face !

He's at home all freaking day ... Come on , not even one single bottle can he feed her ? When he goes to bed around 2 or 3 in the morning is when I leave the bedroom and

I go to the living room , dragging everything with me , bassinet , diapers and my inevitable disappointment . I look at my daughter and think (oh shit )... I may mess up given her sutch a selfish ," primma Donna Father .... But now is too late .

I always feel that I'm rescueing him from every possible situation , but now Im the one who need to be rescued now ... !!!

But I feel I always the one rescue him , from simple task at home , to how to fix his website .

Also Financially towards the baby is no different . When I ask for money for her stuff he tell me that because he pay most of our rent he doesn't need to pay for anything else "until "he get situated at work ... And thats about it ....

BULLTSHIT!

Any insights ? I'm the only one dealing with a Sucker like this.

I look at other fathers , how they do whatever to make sure they families are taken care ...

I just wish he would pull his head out of his arse and be a real man ...

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