We are finally getting my fiance two boys back and they said we will have are handsful with the two year old because hes is very hyper and loves to hit and push his one yr old brother and they told us the number 1 thing we are not allowed to do is spank the 2 yr..... me growing ul i was spanked all the time and the way i look at is kids get away with to much because apparently your not allowed to spank or restrain your child when they are misbehaving restraining i understand but spanking is a sign of abuse to a child yes in away it can be depending on how many times you spank them or how hard you do it but a pop on the butt or hand like im not understanding so if yall have anyways that we can help teach the two yr old not to hit bite or push would be awesome. Thank you