Angry boyfriend?

Question

My boyfriend always gets really mad whenever I cancel/change plans. I DONT do this often and not without a good reason. (Ex. One I time I called to say that I would be late for dinner bc I got caught in the rain and needed to dry off. Another time I told him two days in advance that I can't hang out for our weekly date bc it's my best friends birthday) it's gotten to a point where I find myself in a lot of stressful situations trying to balance my relationship with him and my life apart from him. Any tips? Thanks in advance!

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You both should talk things through, maybe he wants more than what you do at this point? Or your not on the same page.. easily treated with some tlc plan a date night in for the both of you n talk then :* but don't feel bad for canceling your plans x

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That's not normal. A delay or change in plans like this shouldn't make someone angry. These are red flags for more controlling and abusive behaviours.

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I get pissed when plans changed too. And I'm the girl.

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Sounds like being cancelled on is a trigger for him from some past relationship (not even necessarily a romantic one).  That being said, he needs to be willing to accept, recognize, talk through, and move on, and that while he can feel however he wants, there are acceptable and unacceptable forms of expressing his frustration and hurt.  If he is rude, disrespectful, controlling, or cruel in any way towards you, you need to nip that in the bud and let him know you won't tolerate being treated like that.

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