what do you consider "losing your virginity"?

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Hi I'm Devin, 16 and bisexual, and I was wondering like what you consider losing your virginity like does a handjob count? Or oral? And does it not count if you don't orgasm? Or if they don't? Can you lose your virginity over Skype like Skype sex? Idk what counts to you?

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Penetration counts whether it's with a male or a female partner.  Anything else is foreplay.

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I'd say whatever you feel. I don't think penetration is the only way to lose your virginity, (in that case lesbian sex is not sex??) whatever is the most intimate to you. Not skype though, there's no such thing as feeling and touching that one person.

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Nothing you listed counts. I agree w the other comment

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Depends on your relationship I suppose. If your straight it should be when he puts his dick in your butt or pussy. If you're a lesbian then it should be when your first rub your labias against your partner's. If your gay then it would be putting your penis in your Man's butt, or be in the one to take it up the butt. Orgasm is not necessary, but greatly appreciated. If their is no penitration, or rubbing of private parts to other said private parts it isn't real sex. In my opinion anyway.

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different depending on the person. when I lost my virginity it was through oral and I counted it because it ~felt like sex~, not just foreplay.
but like I said, it's different for everyone.

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Whatever you feel like honestly. There are so many ways to be sexual with other people that having penetration be the only ending for virginity is a little too simple imo.

what do you consider "losing your virginity"?

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