first born

Me and my boyfriend just has a baby (she is 1 week old) I have been trying really hard to include my oldest in everything and setting time aside to play with her and have cuddle time. She and my boyfriend have always been really close. Since the baby has been born she won't listen to him or anything. We both have been telling her that she is just as loved as before. We both have been playing and spending time with her. Is there something else we should be doing? 
I want her to feel just as important.