So I should start off by saying I'm currently a stay at home mom with a 8 week old daughter! My husband works 3 shift but last night he offered to stay home and take care of the baby so I could rest since we're both sick (me and the baby). He ended up not helping at all 😩 I stayed up until 2am with the baby.. he did too but he wasn't the one feeding her and holding her to put her back to sleep. At 2am we go to bed but I get back up at 4am and end up staying up all morning. I tried waking him up multiple times to help me and his reaction is to tell me he needs his sleep! Well at 10:30am I finally tell him if he's still planning on getting a tattoo at 2pm he needs to get up (we still had to shower, feed the baby, and give her a bath) but I also told him I'm extremely tired and I'm not going to go with him while he gets his tattoo I asked him to take the baby to his mom's before he goes. So I lay down to take a nap at noon shortly after he wakes me up and tells me his tattoo appointment got rescheduled but he still took the baby to his mom's so he could relax. WHAT! I blew up. For him to not help me at all when he specifically called off to help me is insane. And then to just drop her off with his mom so he can relax and watch tv? I'm extremely frustrated right now 😡😠

Edit: thank you everyone for the advice! Lol we are much better now! Our main issue was that with him working 3rd shift and then sleeping when he gets home when he finally wakes up he wants me to be awake too! And usually this isn't an issue because in all honesty I have a very easy going baby! But while we both have been sick (me and the baby) it's been hard and for him to take off work for 3 days to "help" me and then just end up sleeping 12+ hours a day when I'm still only sleeping 4 max (and a broken 4 let me add) it was to much for me and I definitely snapped! But we talked and he understands where I'm coming from and I think he finally realizes that staying home with the baby isn't a walk in the park 😂