Husband went to a strip club while I'm pregnant
So my husband went to Vegas this past weekend for a random guys trip (not a bachelor party) and went to strip clubs and got lapdances while I stayed home feeling like crap because I'm 5 months pregnant with twins. I am so upset that he did this. I totally get he has to go to the stripclubs because all his friends go but why do you need to get lapdances? Also, Last year he hung out with a bunch of paid escorts (he says they didn't do anything, they just drank together and hung out) while he was in LA because his friends do this often. Meanwhile last year, I had just miscarried so it was horrible timing and it really created a rift in our relationship. I mean, he only tells me these things Bc I grill him. And I grill him because I have crazy intuition and I know something isn't right. This time I lost it though because A. I didn't think it was okay he went to Vegas to begin with and B. I'm pregnant and youre getting rubbed up on by other women? I went crazy on him but I think I have every right to be mad. Am I overreacting? I just don't understand why he likes to get himself in these situations where shady things can potentially happen.
EDIT: just to add that this obviously isn't an isolated incident. He goes to Vegas twice a year and also whatever bachelor parties he can go to. He also travels for work at least 2-3 times a month for work. He would also go when I wasn't pregnant and I just dealt with it. I've been having an extremely difficult pregnancy (he's seen firsthand the suffering) and he's pretty much hasn't been there for me. When he's around he is always working and doesn't even try to spend quality time with me. His idea of spending time with me is him being in front of the computer while I watch tv. I am a very understanding wife and that is why I didn't give him shit about going to Vegas. But getting lap dances crossed the line for me. I thought since he knows he has a miserable pregnant wife at home, he would have the decency to not do something that would make me question what type of person he is. This is more about the decisions he makes. He's the one who wanted to have kids this year- not me. And I think he should take full responsibility and try to act like he is ready. So for those who think that I am pissed because he went to a strip club with his buddies in Vegas once in a while- it's not once in a while and also consider the situation. I'm feeling terrible at home, not feeling great about the trip itself and he took the liberty to make it worse knowing that it would hurt me and make me wonder why it's necessary to pay to have other women's tits rubbed up on him. Also, what I consider fun and a few nights out is dinner and drinks with friends. When I have these babies, I don't plan on going to the clubs with my friends. Im too old for that shit nor do I consider that fun anymore.
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