So my mom doesn't want me on birth control because she thinks I'm having sex and doesn't want it to be an excuse for me to have sex. However I need it because my period are always late then really short when I have them and I have abnormally bad cramps, I swear I'm not exaggerating. Problem is I don't want to go to the Gyno and them ask me if I'm sexually active because I am and I don't want my mom knowing yet. I'm stuck and I don't know what to do.