don't know anymore

My boyfriend is constantly pretty much saying I don't care about him and I don't make him feel wanted. Saying I don't make an effort. I'm the one who travels to him every time. He's traveled to see me like 3 times. I always go to him, shout him everything, buy him heaps. He got me shoes and now thinks he's gotten me more. Also he seems more interested in his mates. Like when I'm out or no matter what I'm doing. I'll reply to his text or something. If I message him, he won't reply until ages after but expects me to reply straight away no matter what I'm doing. I was sick the other day and upset because I had a lot going on and he wouldn't talk to me, he messaged me goodmorning and said he couldn't talk, he had footy for 2 hours and could have messaged me after the game to see if I was okay. But he messaged me that night and said "hey babe in gonna go to sleep. I'm so tired" and went to sleep. Am I being stupid?