I'm 17 and have been overweight for as long as I can remember.  I use food to soothe the pain and boredom I have in my life. "Ugh 😖😷" is my first reaction when I look in the mirror However now I can't decide if I should try to accept myself for how I look, or work my ass off and change. I know most of you are going to tell me to lose weight Beause being fat is "unhealthy" but I am as healthy as can be ,medically. I have a boyfriend who accepts me for me so pretty much now I just have to accept me for me. I'm not sure how to start this healing process...