It's pretty sad to post this but I don't know who to talk to about this. My husband and I have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old son. He's never been very sexual and he's always told me he just has a low sex drive. Last night I came across a porn site in his browser and asked him about it. He said he used it to masturbate when he was out of town recently. He said he does it sometimes but I'm not sure how often because he knew I was upset. He acted like it was no big deal and said I shouldn't worry about it. I'm pretty hurt by this. And not just the porn but the fact that I'm willing to have sex with him (more than willing) but I've been reduced to having to deal with no sex from him and lower my own expectations/needs. I'm not overweight and I haven't let myself go or anything. I don't know what to think. It makes me feel so undesired and wondering why??? Does anyone have any experience with this or advice?