TTC losing hope...

My hubby and I have been trying for so long now. Month after month AF visits and breaks me down emotionally. We haven't necessarily tried  as hard as we are now, just tracking (no temp or CM or stuff) so I don't know how. Also don't know how to feel cervical position. I'm just so disheartened. So some of you ladies with success stories please give me advice? I'm tracking but I don't really know much (no bashing please) yes I know I can look it up, but to me hearing if from someone who has experience is leaps and bounds better. Thanks in advance and please no bashing... I just need female support...