I'm a FTM. Never experienced SIDS for myself or know anyone who has. My daughter is 11 days and it's only been in the last few days that iv got anxiety about it. I do everything recommended (no loose blankets ect) baby sleeps swaddled in her swing next to the bed (I can't stomach putting her in her crib) but i literally can't shake the anxiety I have to check on her every 10 mins to make sure she's breathing at night I'm scared to sleep and when I do I wake up with worry to check her. I jnow SIDS is very rare but u just can't deal with the anxiety of it. I was so excited to get her out of me cuz come the end of my pregnancy I was constantly worried about kick counts ect and I wanted her out so I knew she was safe and healthy but now she is here my anxiety about her health and wellbeing has tripled and I'm going crazy!!