Ok so I'm 18 years old and am currently dating a 26 year old. He's kind of known for his past of extreme gang violence but he's calmed down A LOT in the recent years. He's talking about marriage and having a baby but need to remind you, IM ONLY 18. 😂 Plus he's kind of controlling and I'm terrified that if I were to marry him, I'd never be able to leave if he'd ever lay hands on me. (He's grabbed and snatched me in the past, oh and held me hostage once or twice. Okay, three times.) Buuuuuttttttt, I've managed to look pass his threats and whatnot because I love him and he's willing to change. So this is basically a post about if I should settle down with him and wait to see if he's changed or should I haul ass? 😭