So i am dating someone, we've been together 4-5 months. He and I haven't had sex yet. My dad still wants me on b/c just in case. I'm 20, I am at the age where I can make my own decisions. I had my reasons for not wanting b/c. My dad had the audacity to at least pull me aside or in his office to talk about things like this. I came home from my appt and my stepmom wanted to know what's going on, and after I told her she just felt like she could tell my business in front of my younger sister, niece and older brothers... I am upset she didn't just pull me aside. She told me there's no shame, I said that's not the point, you knew you should've pulled me aside instead of announcing this in from of everyone. What happens between my boyfriend and I is for me and him. Not the entire family.