So my brother in law (husband's brother) has made his way around (I guess that's the nice way to put it?) He has a new "girlfriend" (or so they think) like every 2 weeks. Some of them I get along them, some I don't particularly care for, but I don't have to get to know them cuz they don't usually last. He started dating this girl and we instantly became best friends! They dated about 4 months and we were like sisters. Then they broke up. Should I remain friends with her, or be loyal to my husband's family. I mean she never did anything to me, but she got into it with his mom and sister and it was like bad....they are both texting me saying be loyal to us we're your family. Yall wasn't my family the other day when yall were talking crap. So glow, what do i do?