Why did he do this to me?

Kara
I very rarely ask for sex. It's always my husband starting things. But last night I asked him when he wanted to try this new lube we got and he turned down sex!! We use to have sex alllll the time and now we barely have sex at all.. we are still newlyweds too.. 😭😧 he said we would have sex tonight but I'm honestly not even wanting to... he really hurt me feelings especially since we have been ttc