Who are you thinking of being with you at delivery time?

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I was thinking about this.
I wanted to have both my husband and Mother by my side but my hubby is not confortable with the idea...
What are your thoughts about it?

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My husband wanted to be the only one in the delivery room but the closer we got the more I told him I wanted my mom with me. We let my mom, his mom and my husband in the delivery room and I can say it was the best decision we made. It was nice having people to talk too and my husband got to take a nap since he worked all day and I went into labor at 11 at night.

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I had my boyfriend, mother, sister, and sister in law, it was great!Next time I think I'm going to just have my husband so it can be more of an intimate experience.

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This is hard. My neighbor, mother and mother in law all want to be there, but my husband doesn't. I told them that they can all come, but no one can cross to the other side of the sheet. I don't want my privates exposed to anyone that doesn't have anything to do with the delivery. I told my husband that he had to be there and hold my hand or I would cry (I meant it too. I'm not a cry baby but I couldn't imagine delivering our child without home next to me.) It's our first child and I know he is scared, but I'm scared too and I want him there. So he finally agreed.