I had my second baby early August and this time around I told my partner I only wanted it to be me, him and my mother at the hospital after the baby is born as with my first I was so overwhelmed with my partners half of the family they are so overbearing it gets uncomfortable, I appreciate they care etc but I feel they have no respect for my boudaries. Even thought my partner told them to come when we get out of the hospital they showed up the day after I had the baby, we didn't even know they were coming😡😡 what's even more annoying my partners mum invited herself to ours and decided she's staying for 2 weeks 😩 she's already telling me how to do things, she takes over everything to do with the baby, it's at the point now where I have serious anger towards her, I feel like I haven't had a chance to bond with my baby, I know she's trying to be helpful and I don't want to sound ungrateful but I've had enough and I just want to tell her to leave! I prefer my mother who helps only if I ask her to! I'm going stir crazy help!!