So my baby boy is finally home today after spending exactly three weeks in the nicu since he's a preemie. And I don't know if I am overreacting , but my husband is already off to a car meet . No matter what his father or I say he still goes . And all he says is " I won't be out as late as I usually am , I'll be back by 9" . But he has to get up for work at 6 tomorrow morning . So all hes going to do when he comes home is go to bed . And it's as if I'm doing this all on my own . And as a first time mom , it's a little intimidating . Not to mention the fact that he only went to see our son twice while he was in the nicu .