Feeling super discouraged I don't know if we will ever be pregnant :(

We've been trying for nine months now super hard tracking everything and also doing relaxed months in between when it was all too much we use pre seed syringe method everything we can and we still aren't pregnant we are going to see the gynocologist in a few months but it's a long wait is this normal? Or should we be worried? I keep worrying that something must be wrong