Relationship issues

When my husband is home it's like my rules don't matter he lets the kids play on his phone and watch tv on school nights when I say we should not let them watch tv. He says they can watch tv just so they won't be whining... It makes me so angry am I wrong for wanting to leave? He is just irritating me today....I love him with all my heart should I just let him do what he wants and let them stay up?