I don't orgasm!?!?

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And don't even start with the "oh you haven't been with the right guy yet!" Or "they just don't know what they're doing" but yes the title is true... I've never had an orgasm. I mean I think I've gotten close? And I do get really REALLY wet, but I've never had that "OMG WOW THIS FEELS AMAZING" moment. Do you think it's impossible for me?

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Trying to find an orgasm with someone else is hard if you don't know how to direct them. I strongly recommend a good long session of self play. Get some stimulating lubricant, some toys, or just your fingers. Play around with yourself and try to find out what feels good without the pressure of someone else being there. Once you know what feels good, then you know how to direct your partner. It may take awhile, but be patient and keep practicing.

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I feel like a lot of girls go through this same thing. I'm 25 and didn't orgasm until like 2 years ago. It's just difficult for some of us and especially guys...sometimes they don't know what their doing or they'll be doing something right but they stop right before it happens. It's just a mess. I feel you. It'll happen.

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Honestly it took me a little while too.. I just realized the more I concentrated on it, the less likely it happened. You really just have to cut out the distractions, no tv, no loud music, no worrying about someone walking in.. none of that. Focus on the situation, let yourself enjoy the moment. If he/she starts doing something that feels good, be vocal about it. Let them know what you like and don't like. Sex requires so communication believe it or not haha. Just remember to have fun!! Good luck.

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The female body is just so intricate and confusing at times and reaching climax isn't so easy for many women. It takes a certain type for each woman and can take different amounts of time. Have you spent much time just exploring your body and what types of stimulation do what to you? Maybe play with yourself either alone or with your partner, use toys if you're comfortable with it. Also, you need to make sure you feel comfortable, there is nothing to feel bad about but being stressed or nervous makes it less likely for women to reach climax. So set the mood, then get busy! It will take time and a lot of exploring, but eventually you will find what makes you have that "OMG WOW THIS FEELS AMAZING" moment. Best of luck 💕

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I have the exact same thing going on with me. I don't think it's impossible, it just hasn't happened yet. I know I drive myself crazy (and almost an unsafe amount of kinky) trying to make it happen, but really, I think we just need to wait for everything to line up. 
I have ADHD and apparently it's pretty common for people with ADHD to have difficulty cumming, because of the difficulty concentrating.

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For some women it's harder to have an orgasm!!!! My ex girlfriend literally could not get herself off and getting her off took like an hour or longer to do. Some women just have a very hard time and it might just mean you need some clit stimulation. It takes longer for me to orgasm as well but as long as I start playing with my clit while I'm super horny during sex generally I can get off.

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