What is he doing and what should I do?

Question

Before anyone gets super upset with what I'm about to say, realize that I too am upset with this and I know it's wrong, but I am a human and we all fall into temptations but I am here to get help so that I don't.

I work with a gut at work who I think is really cute and funny. Over time I started to like him when I found out he had a girlfriend and two kids. We always talk off and on for weeks at a time. If we wrk together we text for about 2 days and if we don't see each other at work we don't text. We have different schedules and don't always see each other at work.
For two days we worked the same shift and went a and grabbed lunch together. He always complains about not having good sex anymore and always seems to talk to me about it. We joke a lot together so I can't tell if he secretly wants me .

All day at work we spoke together and when I handed him a lighter he asked me to borrow he held on to the hand that was holding the lighter and just stares at me for what seemed like forever and than just let go.

Here's where I went wrong. I asked him if he could tell me what lingerie I would probably look good in. He told me to send the picture and he didn't reply for an hour. Once he did he said, "Nice. Whoever sleeps with you will be pleased."
After that I didn't know what to text back and he hasn't text since. Does he like me or jus playing games? What should I do?

Again, I know this is wrong, I'm not saying it's not, I just need some guidance from me fellow ladies who I know have been through this before.

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You are headed for a world of hurt!

He should never have talked to you about his sex life! Haters can hate but that's my opinion. You should never have asked about the lingerie. You knew what you were doing. You are both in the wrong.

Think about his girlfriend and his kids... If he'd cheat on them he'd cheat on you. Yes he's playing with you and then he's going to toss you aside like you never mattered.

Stop the madness! Don't be that girl!!!!

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Probably wants a quick lay. Sounds evil. But he probably will sleep with you, then the texts, friendship will go, please don't do anything with him you will only be classed as a home wrecker. I'm not insulting you your probably a nice woman but if you sleep with him people will perceive you differently x

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Leave it at that. Don't text him again. Simply. Nothing has really happened yet so don't let it!!

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What the fuck is wrong with you?

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To be honest, I would think that such images and questions about what you look good in are for you SO, not a work colleague. I would advise you to stop wasting time on flirty dead-end men, and concentrate on why you are even looking for attention from outsiders, what is lacking in your relationship with your SO that you are craving another mans attention?

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Just leave it there. Don't talk to him anymore or text him.

This is disgusting and wrong.