My boyfriend is military. We have been together about four months were already talking about marriage and starting a family. Are we moving to fast??(comments welcome)

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The only reason that I feel you might be moving a little too fast is because of the lifestyle that comes with being married to a military man. I think the best idea for you, would be to go live with him for a while and get a feel for what's like. I have the deepest respect for military families and I admire military wives, because I know the sacrifices they make. Just take the time to strengthen your relationship and to get an understanding for it before you get married and have babies!

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I agree with the other comments. I'm a military wife, he started talkingarroage before I even agreed to be his gf (we were house mates with benefits). He proposed after a year and half of being together. I'm so glad we lived together before he proposed, nothing else could prepare you for the lifestyle...it's hard!

The other army wives I know, most got engaged and/or married very quickly too. I think it's to do with the nature of their work and life impressing a sense of urgency on them.

If it feels right, do it. Only you know how you truly feel.

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My husband and I were together for five months when we started talking marriage, he is also in the military.  I wouldn't trade this life in for anything. If you known he is the one I don't think you are moving to fast. :)