Should I tell his wife?

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This guy totally lied to me about everything, including his name and the fact that he's married. After some internet sleuthing I've found it all out, and now idk what to do!  We slept together multiple times and they both live in another country, he was just visiting here for work and probably thought he could sneakily find some slut to bang 😭

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First off, you're not a slut

Also, yes I would tell her. What if that were you? What if your husband had been cheating on you? What if the other woman didn't know and then found out. Would you want to know?

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Telling him to tell her is pointless cause he'll go 'yeah of course I will' then not do it. However she deserves to know the scumbag she's married to x

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I would only tell her if you have proof. Because if you don't have proof she will most likely not believe you, and that's when the drama starts and you get accused of lying and all sorts. To me it's not worth the drama she will only find out eventually for herself anyway.

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Girl you're not the slut here, he is. You didn't know he was married.

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Find out more about him (he could be a criminal for all you know), go get tested, and tell his wife. Also Google guys in the future.

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Slut????

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Nope because, you didn't know he was married. It's not your fault. It's all on him. He knew he was married and decided to mess around.

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I'm just wondering why "Tell him to tell her" is an option. If he's a big enough ass to do some sketchy shit like this, why would anyone think he'd openly tell her??...

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You are in no way a slut and this is most definitely not your fault!  He made the decision to deceive not only you but his wife as well,  and if he has cheated on her with you,  I'm sure you're not the only one.   I think you should definitely tell her,  because yall both should get tested for stds.

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You are no slut!
HE IS!
But find some proof that you two slept together for the wifey definitely tell her

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