First off I don't want any negative comments on this so if that's all you're going to have move along. 😊👊

Ladies I just need some reassuring words or someone to talk to who might understand what I'm going through in a way? Honestly I just hate talking about my marriage to my friends or family because they get negative about it and think the worst. Anyways, right now my husband (who I've been married to for a year next month 😁🎉🎉) and I are moving back to our home state. We currently live in a different state because he's in the army. So when we go back home next month he's going back to his oilfield job he had before joining the army. Which I'm excited for him and support since he's happy and this is what he wants. However... He's making it all about the money, which yes I know for the first couple months were going to be needing all we can get so we can buy a house, but he makes it seem like I'm never going to see him. He's pretty much putting this job before me. I've talked to him several times about the way I feel and how sad it makes me but he just doesn't understand. I'm just stressing over it though because I feel like if you put too much distance in your marriage that's when things start to get bad. And like when we first got married I've noticed a couple things a guy shouldn't have unless single, and the past couple months he's been good and haven't had them or had anything like that happen but now I'm just like ugh, what if he starts to get bored and curious again since he will be away from me? Idk. I'm probably worried for nothing but I am deeply sadden by this.