so the guy I'm dating and I have been together a while. one day when he came over, we were making out for 15+ minutes, and I went to give him a handjob and he wasn't even hard 🙄. also, if I don't kiss him, we don't kiss. he only really puts his arm around me. (I don't have any hygiene problems, I swear.) but he just doesn't seem to show physical affection, even though he swears up and down he loves it. I really am starting to doubt that he's attracted to me and it's making me insecure as fuck. I'd rather not bother him and ask him (at the moment, maybe next week.) but what are your guy's opinions? am I just being dramatic?