Absolutely frustrated... A little long sorry.

Okay so I usually never post but I can't help this one. So I recently got married and my husband is in the marines and he is in Hawaii. So now that we are married in a few days I will be moving there to be with him.... Now here is where my frustration comes in at. My mother decided to buy a plane ticket without my knowledge and told me the other day I was absolutely pissed. Why in the world would you do that when we haven't even had time to be husband and wife because after we got married he had to leave and I haven't been with my husband as a normal married couple yet and my mother decides to barge in and act as if she has to come with me like no stay home. Now my husband is upset because he feels like it's just stressful because all he wants is to finally be with his wife after not seeing each other for a month like he should be able to and it's making me upset because both of them feel some type of way and I just want everyone happy but I'm a married woman now and I would like to act like it. But my mom seems to not understand that. 😡😤😔😑😭