Okay so a few days ago my boyfriend and I were laying in bed and we got talking about a bunch of stuff and he told me I've gotten fat and that I needed to lose weight. I know I need to lose weight because I had our son 8months ago and still haven't lost the 45pounds I gained during my pregnancy. I told him that I've lost a little bit and he said "No, you probably lost muscle and it turned into fat. Your belly roll has gotten bigger." He the preceded to grab my tummy. In all honesty it didn't bother me that much, but it still hurt because he's supposed to be attracted to me and it made me feel like he wasn't. I've become so positive about my body that I just brushed it off, but how do I go about discussing how I didn't appreciate it? The picture was from a few months ago, but it still looks the same.