My husband works for the railroad and is away from home all the time. I work 16 hour shifts at an I/DD group home. I will admit that our jobs have taught us just the right amount of patience we need for parenting, but I feel like my husband and I are video messaging more than we are actually seeing each other. I miss him so much! And it feels like we're BOTH missing out on the beauty of our first pregnancy! How can time slow down?