I've been TTC since after I married, 4 months ago

I've been TTC since after I married, 4 months ago. and this is my third cycle trying. although its maybe short, I quite understand and familiar with all TTC struggles. What different in this month, when I finally got my BFP is I didn't got ovulation spotting. usually in my fertile week I spotted very brown discharge and it last for 3 days or so. and I drink "jamu" a traditional drink, to help open up my cervix, and I have EWCM in FW, which I never got in the past few months. During TWW, I feel tired and gassy, and bloating. But it was all the same PMS signs for me so I didn't really noticed it. until start from 6 dpo to 7 dpo I had a slight cervix cramps. Then on 8 dpo I BD in the morning, and when I cleaned up and wiped, there was a spot of red blood,not a lot, only a super tiny blood. Then I had AF cramps on 9 dpo, I thought AF would come early, but no AF and I still cramping (very similiar to AF cramps) until 13 dpo. This for me is kinda strange, cuz usually when I got AF cramps, she'll be there soon, like later at night or tomorrow, this time, nope, nothing. 13 or 14 dpo is the day AF due, but on 13dpo, I was planning to donate my blood, so I thought I'll test, if its negative I'll donate. So I POAS and yep, there it is, my first ever BFP. the line a bit faint, but its there. Up to this point (two days after I got my BFP) it still feel unreal for me, but AF still not coming, so I think I can finally believe that yes, I'm pregnant ❤ One more thing, this cycle I dont BD every day, but every other day in FW, but maybe its just a coincidence.