I was telling my friend about a Gender Reveal party and she FLIPPED OUT! She told me I am transphobic and a sexist pig for wanting to know the gender. I am by no mean transphobic, sexist, homophobic, but I would like to have some fun while i'm dealing with non stop nausea, bloating, aches and pains and there is more to knowing the sex of the baby other than gender. Why are people so offended. I swear in highschool I said "Hey guys!" to my friends and some kid not in the group said "That is not gender inclusive! And you are assuming they all identify as people! Some are Kin you know?!" And I just gave her the middle finger and went on my day. What in the world is going on?!