So my husband is so involved he is really great when it comes to the kids and the things they need I truly love and appreciate him. But tell me if I am wrong he came to me the other day and said babe when do we find out what we are having i told him we go back Monday for her to set the appointment, then he proceeded to say one of the ladies that come in to his job told him she has baby girl clothes, car seat, swing, bouncer and so forth and he says she has a lot of baby clothes that are still brand new with tags and she will give it all to him if he wants it and of course he says yes. Because all he was thinking was free and we don't have to buy it. But I kinda of snapped like no we don't we don't even know what the stuff looks like you don't just say yes without consulting me and I don't want a used car seat I'm sorry I will buy it myself if I have to. I'm so picky when it comes to my kids I will take hand me downs but it has to be someone I know and I know they take care of their babies items that's just me. I have a sister I gave all my 4 year olds things to that I won't take back because she is the complete opposite of me tho I love her she is just not as caring for her belongings as I am.