is something wrong with me 🤔 ?

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Why do guys think I'm wrong for wanting to " get to know them " ( the basics ) over text for a couple weeks before finally meeting up ?? Lmfao a dude will message me TODAY , ask my name , where I'm from , say I'm cute and then say " Lets chill " 🤔🤔🤔🤔 like , no ! TfÂ