Help!!!

I love my husband. I do not want to leave him. But I have a problem. When I want to make love to him, I am not turned on by his touch. Is it me? I feel as though I have a problem. I want to make love to him but we have had problems over the years and it has caused me to look and feel differently towards him. I let problems effect how i feel towards him. Is it me? Am I the one that's wrong for feeling this way?