Okay so my hubby is super close to his cousins and one of them asked him if he could have a small barbeque at our house. I am 8 months pregnant, I am tired, I work full time, and I am trying my very best to continue juggling all of the chores at home. My husband helps out with a few things here and there, but not much. I cook, I clean, I do laundry, I take care of our fur babies, I do the grocery shopping, I send out the bills every month. I pretty much struggle to do it all. Occasionally he will help with the dinner dishes or clean out his lunch box from work. I got super upset because I feel lack of consideration and understanding on his part. I would just like for the man who's baby I am caring to show that he cares just a little for me and his unborn child. Is that too much to ask? His cousin and his wife have their own apartment, so why not have the get together there? Plus they have a two year old who is an out of control slob. I can't handle that shit right now. I want to rest up and get prepped to take care of my own plus we are having our baby shower this next weekend. I think his cousins request is absurd and out of line. Comments?