Ready to choke him

Autumn
Is it normal to seriously want to choke your so to the point of him turning blue - I'm currently 6 months and will admit I've been a moody mess for about 2 months now happy.sad.crying for no reason but lately I've just been feeling very much alone me and my so have been together almost 6 years so I know that excitement is dead at this point but I'm going through a lot emotionally and even physically I work 14 hour days so when I have off I don't do much and can't because i have swollen feet, heartburn, sore hips or just am plain exhausted and he says that I do nothing and and need to pretty much suck it up- really understanding why woman go through having babies not men because if it was him the whole world would be ending...grr